We Meet at Last

Last night I met - at long last - CyberGuy. He and I first met via eharmony waaay back in January. Yesterday I met him at a bookstore in Memphis. We chatted there for about an hour and went to a restaurant where we ate and talked for another hour or two.

His online persona definitely translated in person - he is funny and smart and interesting to talk to.

But. There was no chemistry there. Like, none. I didn't feel an iota for attraction to him.

When he drove me back to the bookstore to get my car, he just dropped me off at the car, shook my hand, and made no mention of our getting together again. I thought good - maybe he feels the same way.

This morning I had an email from him, saying he'd enjoyed hanging out with me and for me to let him know what I was thinking. How do I respond to this?

I can't say any of the normal blow-off stuff like, I've decided I don't want a relationship right now, blah, blah, blah because he KNOWS better than that. Any thoughts?

In other news, dear son's father told me Friday that dear son is going to be a brother. The ex's girlfriend is expecting and they're getting married.