So I'm Reduced to This
Begging friends and people I hardly know (or don't know at all) to weigh in with their opinions. If you're new here (and if you are, bless your heart for taking pity on me) you may want to scroll down to the post on January 11 and get all the background on this pathetic situation. Yes, you'll wince, as I do, everytime I read the childlike delight and naivete (however you spell it) with which I posted earlier.
On the up side, today is day however-many that I haven't called him. So there. Yea me.
I can't help it, though (and yes, this is where I have always, always, always screwed up in relationships, since I was 12) feel like I'm being a little, I don't know, mean or small-minded or something by not calling to check on him after he's had surgery. I'M NOT GOING TO as nobody but nobody thinks it's a good or even a not horrible idea. Just seems to me that it would be the nice thing to do. But hey, where does nice get you, right?? Where does treating a guy the way you want to be treated get ya?? It gets your little heart stomped all over.
Okay, now I'm just being melodramatic so I'll stop.
On the up side, today is day however-many that I haven't called him. So there. Yea me.
I can't help it, though (and yes, this is where I have always, always, always screwed up in relationships, since I was 12) feel like I'm being a little, I don't know, mean or small-minded or something by not calling to check on him after he's had surgery. I'M NOT GOING TO as nobody but nobody thinks it's a good or even a not horrible idea. Just seems to me that it would be the nice thing to do. But hey, where does nice get you, right?? Where does treating a guy the way you want to be treated get ya?? It gets your little heart stomped all over.
Okay, now I'm just being melodramatic so I'll stop.
posted by KDA at 10:11 AM
1 Comments:
DO NOT, under any circumstances, call that guy again until he calls you. You should never be the one putting more effort into a new relationship. New relationships require some effort from both people, but a least a little more from the guy. If the girl puts more in than the guy, he skitters away like a squirrel. Don't ask me why this happens, it just does. Next time you feel like calling him, have a shot of Nyquil and a popsicle. That won't do anything for you but make you sleepy and make your teeth chatter, but hey, it's something to do.
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