Working on a Mystery
Actually, I think I may HAVE figured out the mystery with Ted.
It’s simply a case of his priorities being focused elsewhere, mainly on his children. I think he likes me. I don't think this is a colossal mindfuck or games or the like.
How can you fault a guy for focusing on his kids, right? He has sole custody and they mean the world to him, as well they should.
I’m going to go out on a limb and say it’s not even that he may not like me as much as I like him so much as he is simply unused to making time, or taking time, for anything in his life except for kids, family, work, and himself – and in that exact order, too, I’m pretty sure. He’s said as much before, in offhand remarks, about how he knows he should make more time for himself, etc.
Do I sound delusional? Really. Tell me. I want to know.
Because I may be over-thinking things (as I am wont to do) and it may be waaay simpler – that he ain’t into me like I am into him.
What do you think?
I had this revelation because yesterday he emailed and in closing, asked if I was game to try to get together again. I emailed back and answered that I was and hey, what did his Saturday look like. He responded that he and the kids had plans for the weekend; movies from Blockbuster and pizza. Mkay.
But he did express interest in what kind of visitation schedule my dear son had with his dad in hopes that he and I could coordinate, which is a good idea. And a good sign, too, that he’s thinking that way. Truth be told, I do have dear son this weekend so next weekend really IS better. But still.
So I think we’re going to try to get together the weekend of the 20th. Not sure where or anything else yet. So we’ll see.
In the meantime, Tyler Durden grows more and more interesting. And Flyboy is fun to talk to, so I’m not sure what my problem with that is. Except that his picture? He’s cute and all but he strikes me as someone who you couldn’t trust. Someone who would make fun of you behind your back to his friends. Don’t know why I think that.
It’s simply a case of his priorities being focused elsewhere, mainly on his children. I think he likes me. I don't think this is a colossal mindfuck or games or the like.
How can you fault a guy for focusing on his kids, right? He has sole custody and they mean the world to him, as well they should.
I’m going to go out on a limb and say it’s not even that he may not like me as much as I like him so much as he is simply unused to making time, or taking time, for anything in his life except for kids, family, work, and himself – and in that exact order, too, I’m pretty sure. He’s said as much before, in offhand remarks, about how he knows he should make more time for himself, etc.
Do I sound delusional? Really. Tell me. I want to know.
Because I may be over-thinking things (as I am wont to do) and it may be waaay simpler – that he ain’t into me like I am into him.
What do you think?
I had this revelation because yesterday he emailed and in closing, asked if I was game to try to get together again. I emailed back and answered that I was and hey, what did his Saturday look like. He responded that he and the kids had plans for the weekend; movies from Blockbuster and pizza. Mkay.
But he did express interest in what kind of visitation schedule my dear son had with his dad in hopes that he and I could coordinate, which is a good idea. And a good sign, too, that he’s thinking that way. Truth be told, I do have dear son this weekend so next weekend really IS better. But still.
So I think we’re going to try to get together the weekend of the 20th. Not sure where or anything else yet. So we’ll see.
In the meantime, Tyler Durden grows more and more interesting. And Flyboy is fun to talk to, so I’m not sure what my problem with that is. Except that his picture? He’s cute and all but he strikes me as someone who you couldn’t trust. Someone who would make fun of you behind your back to his friends. Don’t know why I think that.
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